In the stories “The Rules of the Game” and “The Bass, the River and Sheila Mant” and in the film Son of Rambow, the characters have to learn to compromise and make sacrifices occasionally to form and maintain relationships with others. In "The Rules of the Game" by Amy Tan, Meimei doesn't want to compromise and as a result she fights with her mother. The narrator of "The Bass, the River, and Sheila Mant" by W.D. Wetherell releases an enormous fish to maintain a relationship with his crush. In the film Son of Rambow, Will discovers that he must make changes in his life to sustain his friendship with Lee. Say no to plagiarism. Get a tailor-made essay on "Why Violent Video Games Shouldn't Be Banned"? Get an original essay Meimei refuses to let her mother brag about her successes in "Rules of the Game" and is shunned by her family as a result. Mrs. Jong is proud of her daughter's success in chess and takes her to the market to show her off. Meimei refuses to give her mother this pleasure and tells her that she is embarrassing her. Mrs. Jong becomes angry and with "her voice cracking with anger", asks "Does it embarrass you that you are my daughter?" (232). Mrs. Jong is angry that her daughter is unwilling to sacrifice some of her pride for her mother's. When Meimei finally returns home after being rude to her mother and then running away, the family doesn't want to talk to her because of how she has dishonored them. “We have nothing to do with this girl,” says Ms. Jong. “This girl has nothing to do with us” (233). Because Meimei is unwilling to compromise for her mother, her mother wants nothing to do with her. From this experience, Meimei learns the importance of compromising to avoid hurting the feelings of loved ones. In "The Bass, the River, and Sheila Mant," the narrator learns that in order to have a relationship with certain girls, it is necessary to occasionally give in. his own interests, but he also learns that it's not always worth making great sacrifices for girls. His two interests, fishing and his crush, Sheila Mant, conflict in the story. Sheila Mant expresses a strong disinterest in fishing when she tells him that she thinks “fishing is stupid… it's boring and all. Definitely stupid” (170). From then on, the narrator compromises to keep Sheila interested in him; he hides his love for fishing from her. He ultimately makes a huge sacrifice when he releases the fish he caught, just to maintain his relationship with Shelia. However, although he hides his love of fishing and seemingly maintains Sheila's interest, she ultimately ignores him and the narrator realizes that he has compromised too much. He says, “There would be other Sheila Mants in my life, other fish, and though I came close once or twice, it was these secret, hidden tugs in the night that claimed me, and I never made the same mistake again " (173) ). Looking back on the experience, the narrator decides that it wasn't worth compromising for Sheila. In the film Son of Rambow, Will learns that to make and keep a new friend, he must make some changes and compromises in his previous life. Coming from a devoutly religious family, Will must make many adjustments to become friends with Lee, a notorious troublemaker. Will compromises his values when he lies to his mother about meeting Lee to shoot their movie. Also, inspired by Lee, Will steals groceries from the supermarket. He misses church and prayer meetings to hang out with Lee and work on the film. His life changes so drastically, in fact, that members of their sect, "The Brethren", feel the need to?
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