The concept behind loving someone is simply very complicated and esoteric in nature. People often describe a certain chemistry, such as a certain attraction, necessary between two individuals in love, but Barbara Fredrickson is able to coordinate the definition of love based on chemicals. Barbara Fredrickson is able to provide the definition of love based on deductive reasoning based on chemistry, biology, and neurology explained in Love 2.0: How Our Ultimate Emotion Influences Everything We Feel, Think, Do, and Become. As Barbara explains “With each micro-moment of love, then, you climb another step on the spiral ladder that elevates you to a higher level, to richer and more compassionate social relationships, to greater resilience.” Love can affect you so profoundly that it reshapes you from the inside out and in doing so alters your destiny for future moments of love,” says Fredrickson but he seems to have forgotten that there are always two perspectives in every ideology. There is no doubt that love experiences play a crucial role in shaping an individual, but it is ignorant to say that only love will cause such change. The reality is that not all relationships and encounters are true "micro-moments of love". and even those negative experiences participate in that which creates the individual's identity and thought process. factual, biological, of love; Thus making people feel that the negative experience they had to face and face was the result of their body and its biology. The idea that their body and their brain, essentially unalterable, were capable to cause them pain and distress, will prevent them from achieving the love and desire for others described by Fredrickson. The idea that love works according to the orders recorded by the individual's body makes love uncontrollable. Human beings are predisposed by nature. Love has been instilled as “sexual desire…or blood ties of kinship…special bond and commitment” by mainstream society and culture and the new knowledge simply disrupts a well-established and accepted idea. The reality of the biological aspects gives the impression of an attachment of two minds or two bodies rather than an embodiment of love between two individuals. Experimental reasoning has exposed not only the attraction but also the sentimental aspect of love. It is often said that when people fall in love, their hearts know it and they feel a special feeling and that is what most people try to find, the emotion of love. The biology of love seems to separate the emotion from the individual making love a matter of the brain rather than the heart. Furthermore, the concept of “love at first sight” loses all meaning; as Fredrickson quotes from a contributor, there must be "a true meeting of the minds - a single act, performed by two brains", essentially the brains must be paired in order for the connection to truly forge and thus make "love at first sight "a thing of the past. New insight forces an individual to