Even if you find the courage to ask, it may be difficult and humiliating to ask anyway since it is less challenging to finish it now rather than later. Be generous and not protective once they have communicated their insights to you. At the moment these inclinations will be the known inclinations, the inclinations that the great dears have seen for a long time and were trying to outline for you. These known tendencies are sometimes the most difficult to discuss because, so to speak, they influence family and peers the most, while pride gets in the way. However, before anticipating exit from a negative behavior pattern, there must be a solid individual intention to change